Oprah says everyone has an “aha moment,” one which you realize, shoot I need to reset my life. My “aha” moment was when my gorgeous, witty and intelligent boyfriend had his arm wrapped over me while sleeping in the morning. His arm was heavy… and hairy. I wanted to crawl out of my skin. I looked over and saw the most handsome man in the world and I finally realized, damn, I’m the one to blame. Something was missing inside of me. So I reset my love life and became a lesbian. I am so happy and lez be honest, resetting your life on any level is necessary to growth.